Thursday, June 14, 2012

Your Life...Your Way!

Secondary School Civics Textbook-1st Chapter 1st line-"Man is a social animal...he needs society to live in"...correct no??

So,how many people do we really need in our lives (or society) to live happily??

Thankfully there is no set number of people we need....or else it would become really difficult to "let go" of some people.

Yes,at some point in all our lives,we just drift apart from some people.Sometimes the drift is gradual,sometimes intentional.

It is not necessary,that who was once so important in our lives will always be the same.Things might start to change and they might start treating you like dirt.Don't let them.It might not be easy though,but it is your right to decide who should be in
your life and whose absence might well do you good.

In human relationships distance is not measured in miles, but in affection.  Two people can be right next to each other, yet miles apart.  So don’t ignore someone who cares about you, because lack of concern hurts more than angry words.  Stay in touch with those who matter to you.  Not because it’s convenient, but because they’re worth the extra effort. 

We  don’t need a certain number of friends, just a number of friends we can be certain of.  Paying attention to these people is a priority.

No one has the right to judge you.  They might have heard your stories, but they didn’t feel what you were going through.  No matter what you do, there will always be someone who thinks differently.  So concentrate on doing what you know in your heart is right.Pay attention to your relationship with yourself.One of the most painful things in life is losing yourself in the process of loving others too much, and forgetting that you are special too.

Some people bring happiness "wherever" they go; some bring it "whenever" they go.Let the "whenevers" go out of your life.....but be the "wherever" in others' life.That at least,can be tried!!

2 comments:

  1. hmm... Sochanewali baat hai Suku.. :)
    as usual.. awesome one.. :)

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  2. thanks pinky....sochna zaroor:)

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