Monday, April 1, 2013

Office Office..!!

Its not that I am new to the corporate world.But till now,maybe I was oblivious to it or was not affected by it,and hence was unaware of politics in office,I don't know.It is recently that the term "politics" has caught my fancy in the office and it is now that I have really started taking it seriously.

The expression ‘office politics’ has got a bad name. We think of them as something undesirable, unwholesome, toxic. But as I now realize, they are far from bad,just an inevitable part of professional life. They must be embraced with as much humour, self-conscious deliberation and wisdom as possible.
 
On a daily basis, it’s absolutely inevitable that people will find themselves competing. Interests at work frequently do not coincide. Resources are finite, like the most stimulating tasks, the best shift hours or pots for bonusses. It is healthy for us to use our wiles to try and get the best of these for ourselves. At its simplest, that’s all I mean by ‘office politics’: the normal wheezes everyone uses to advance their interests.

Positive or negative – politics happens. The philosopher Plato said, "One of the penalties for refusing to participate in politics is that you end up being governed by your inferiors." And this hold true today ain the workplace: If you don't participate in the political game, you risk not having a say in what happens and allowing people with less experience, skill or knowledge to influence the decisions being made around you.
 
Office Politics are a fact of life. Wise politicking will help us get what we want in the world of work without compromising others in the process. I guess its better to learn to use its power positively while diffusing the efforts of those who abuse it. I am learning..so can you!!:-)

Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Holi Hai...!!!:):)

Its the colourful festival Holi today!!!

Wishing all a very happy and colourful Holi:):)

Wednesday, March 20, 2013

Self-Centred Beings...!!

It’s popular to accuse people of being self-centered. Some claim our entire society is self-centered and this is why we have the problems we do. I know some feel that is right to be self-centered. They might ask, who else should I center my life around?

Setting that aside, how do you think a person becomes self-centered? Are they born that way? Can we see this in a chart? Or are they taught to be self-centered?


In my opinion, I wouldn’t say that self-centeredness spawns from someone’s chart alone. Being wound up within ones self, I hope, is when one is growing, learning about themselves and reflecting. Certainly, this can become toxic and create turmoil within their relationships and livelihood.
I can say that within my age group, decade wise, there’s a LOT of self-centeredness, especially due to the way we socialize. There’s Facebook, Instagram, Orkut, etc., where it’s all about what I’m wearing, ate, or went.
Also, again from my viewpoint, the idea of community is changing. The notion that “it takes a village”, seems to either be taking a new form, or is just non-existent.
I do know some poeple who are all about them, but either because they had it rough when raised, or they’re parents or whomever aided in that thought process.
It seems that self-centeredness can spawn from fear of being let down, being dependent, not being on par with others, or the desire to feel special or wanted.

Whatever it might be, how do we deal with such people....if they are in our lives and we have no escape from them???

Thursday, January 24, 2013

Adhuri si baat....

This song from Barfi..!!All about incomplete conversations,incomplete emotions......feelings yet to be shared!!Quite meaningful...

Phir le aaya dil
Majboor kya kije
Raas na aaya
Rehna door kya kije
Dil keh raha
Use maqammal kar bhi aao
Wo jo adhuri si
Baat baaki hai
Wo jo adhuri si
Yaad baaki hai
Wo jo adhuri si
Yaad baaki hai
Ahaan..

Karte hain hum
Aaj qabool kya kije
Ho gaye thi jo
Humse bhool kya kije
Dil keh raha
Use mayassar
Kar bhi aao
Wo jo dabi si
Aas baaki hai
Wo jo dabi si
Aanch baaki hai
Wo jo dabi si
Aanch baaki hai
Wo jo dabi si.. i..
Aanch baaki hai

Kismat ko hai ye
Manzoor kya kije ye..
Gapanidari.. niridanidamadapa..
Kismat ko hai ye
Manzoor kya kije
Kismat ko hai ye
Manzoor kya kije
Milte rahe hum
Badastoor kya kije
Dil keh raha hai
Use musalsal
Kar bhi aao
Wo jo ruki si
Raah baaki hai
Wo jo ruki si
Chaah baaki hai
Wo jo ruki si
Chaah baaki hai
Wo jo ruki si
Chaah baaki hai..
Hunm..aa..

Monday, December 31, 2012

Amanat....For You

RIP "Amanat"............this is something that has been heard,said and written a lot in the past two days.I am aware that there is an increasing anger against the government for not providing enough security to women.But according to several records,women mostly get raped within their safe zone as well.Till where can the police reach?

Yes,in "Amanat's" case,alert police could have helped,but the real monster lies in the minds of these blood suckers!!That is what really needs to be cleansed and the society will be rape free on its own.

It IS a huge task,but we can surely start with mothers educating their kids with the right values.Though urban India might catch up fast,it is the rural parts that need to change their mind set.And for that,it is a must that education reaches villages fast...that is where the government can step in...and definately,if Amanat's culprits are hanged or prosecuted,hopefully that will inculcate a fear in the minds of the rapists in contrast to the fear already present in innocent minds...

Hoping justice will be done to you Amanat,rest in peace.

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

SSShhh.....!!!

I have mostly always been quite a faint-hearted person..i.e:i never really watched any horror shows or movies.So much so that even the show "Aahat",which was described by my school mates as "more funny than scary",was a strict no-no on my to-watch list!!!!

Of course,with time ,I did overcome my fear for the dark and could comfortably stay alone in the house for a long time till last week.Last week I saw the movie which was touted as a thriller but ended up having a paranormal twist to it...and I have lost sleep again!!:(

Yes,I know it sounds kiddish and all, but then that is the kind of imagination I always had and I would have avoided the movie myself had I got even a slight hint about the kind of story it would be...Anyways,I am sure,in a few days I will be over this phase as well and my heart will be beating at a normal rate..not so fast!!!

For now,I let the lights of my room remain ON....as I try to sleep...

Monday, September 17, 2012

Two years old!!:):)

My "Piece of Mind" is turning 2 today!!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY Dear Blog!!:D:D